How to touch a girl

By Chad Hunter

Instructions

Things You’ll Need:

Communication
Patience
Sincerity
Timing

Step 1:
Gauge her feelings. If she's feeling standoffish, don't pursue touching. There's nothing that will shoot your approach down faster than trying to be physical with a girl who is not in the mood. If she's feeling romantic and sentimental, you can try to move forward.
Step 2:
Start with her hand. Holding a girl's hand first is a good way to see how responsive she is to being touched. If she pulls away, slow your approach or maybe even stop. Ask her if she was uncomfortable with the hand touch. If she smiles and moves with a touch of her own, continue touching slowly.
Step 3:
Try hugging next after holding her hand. If the hand holding was good, then try a bit of hugging and embracing. Watch how she reacts to your body being next to hers. As with her hand, if she pulls back, you pull back. If she smiles, keep the touching going.
Step 4:
Communicate about what's liked and what's not. As awkward as it may sound and feel at first, talk about what she likes, what you like and how you both enjoy touching. hat's the only way to avoid land mines and embarrassment from going "too far" or showing no interest by not going "far enough."

Tips & Warnings

Don't rush the touching.
If she says no, listen to her and back off.
Don't try to be smooth, let her know if there's any nervousness.

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