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Happy Anniversary to me (and Paul) and a SURPRISE!!

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Happy Anniversary to me (and Paul) and a SURPRISE!!

Postby Phyrie on Sat Nov 26, 2011 2:21 am

34 years ago today, two kids, 17 and 19, got married by a justice at the courthouse. Her mother had to sign a permission document before the girl could be married, though oddly, she never had to sign a damn thing when the two young people had had a baby six months before! Shows you where the Government's priorities are, doesn't it?

Anyway, those two knuckle-headed kids grew up to be Paul and me. We had plans for today. We were going to go over to the mainland, do some shopping and have a nice dinner at a new restaurant. But I woke up with yet another anxiety attack, and was forced to retreat back to bed with an Ativan and a Gravol on board. I didn’t wake up until 3:00 in the afternoon (the time our ferry was to leave!) and so Paul’s plans were spoiled. I told him how sorry I was that I had ruined his day, but he pooh-poohed it, and said he was just as happy to stay home with me. We made a reservation at our one and only “fine dining” restaurant, and that would do that trick.

I knew he had gone out for a walk with Kiba while I was still in bed, and I looked for my share of the mail. “Nothing for me?” I asked. “Just some flyers. They’re on your keyboard.” Along with a big, fat envelope! Oh, dear. I didn’t have a card for Paul, as I was planning on getting on when we went over today, so again I felt badly. But his card was perfect, as always, and I had a lovely cry over the sentiments within. As I scratched the latex off the instant tickets Paul always includes in a card, he disappeared into the other room. I didn’t notice him come back in, until he stood in front of me, eyes gleaming with a special secret, one hand behind his back.

And then, he sank to his knees, causing me to gasp out loud, an intimation of what was to come leaping into my brain! “I didn’t do a very good job of this the first time around, and although it’s not the way I had planned for today, I hope it will be better than the last time. I love you more than I can say. I always have, and I always will.” And from behind his back come a BOX! A small box. A ring box.

Now, anyone who knows me, knows that I lost my wedding rings this summer while on vacation. Though several other small items that seemed to have gone missing have since showed up, my rings never did. It broke my heart to have to tell Paul that I had lost those rings, and I missed them every day. And, it seems, my loss was apparent to Paul, as well.
In the last few days, I had been perusing jewellery websites, showing various rings to Paul, asking what he thought of them. I was sussing out the situation, as I didn’t know if he felt comfortable replacing my rings at all, or if I even had any business asking him to do so, since I was the one who had lost them. But I showed him a few, and he seemed to think they were nice enough. I even thought that when we went over to do the shopping today, we could stop in at the local jeweller’s and have a look at what they had in store. I thought I would see some rings on this finger, eventually.

Back to this afternoon: that box! I sobbed, both in shock and sheer joy, as he fumbled that silly little box open, and there, nestled on the grey silk, two rings, a wedding set, made for a bride, chosen for a wife, to replace their humble forbears, lost somewhere in the sun and sand. I sobbed, and so did my husband. He wailed, “I swore, I SWORE to myself I wouldn’t cry! I was going to be all stoic and strong. I had a PLAN!” I laughed at him. How much better could this possibly be? As we embraced, and wet each other collars with our happy tears, I heard him mumble, “Are they alright?”

ALL THEY ALRIGHT?! I’ll leave it you, good people. Are they alright?
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Sometimes life is so sweet, it feels like theft. Like you owe someone for how wonderful this is. And I do. I owe it to my husband. For 34 years of love, consideration, kindness, and joy. Thank you, Paul. And, yes, they’re perfect.
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Re: Happy Anniversary to me (and Paul) and a SURPRISE!!

Postby princelover on Sat Nov 26, 2011 5:30 am

Phyrie and Paul, Happy anniversary! Your story and photo brought tears of joy to my eyes of a real life love story of two true soul mates. Thank you for sharing and I raise my glass in toast for 34 PLUS years more of wedded bliss for you.
As I have said many times in the past, Paul is a true keeper and this just proves once again how very precious he is and very handsome as well. Both of you are beautiful people.

Your rings are georgous and while I know they will never replace the ones that were lost, the rings plus Paul's presentation of them will certainly be a memory to add to the first set of rings.

You and Paul deserve the very best and I know that you give that each and every day, to each other, so I can only say Happy 34th Anniversary to both of you and I loved seeing sweet Kiba in the last picture. Give him a hug from me. Kiba, that is!
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Postby kian on Sat Nov 26, 2011 10:56 am

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Your post brought tears to my eyes, so very very sweet and yes the rings are perfect just like you and Paul!!! ♥♥♥
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Postby RubyJeansMom on Sat Nov 26, 2011 12:28 pm

Phyrie, I was also teary-eyed, reading you post.
The HO and I have often commented, that you and Paul are perfect for each other, and if any two people belonged together, it's the two of you. Your love for each other is palpable. ♥

Your new rings are BEAUTIFUL! Well done, Paul. :D
Although I was half expecting a sweet little Tri Cavalier girl. :wink: :mrgreen:

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Postby 4 the Dogs on Sat Nov 26, 2011 1:29 pm

Are they alright?! :shock:

The ring is beautiful!! I say though tears!! I can imagine the sparkle it has in the sunshine! Better get some sunglasses.:)
Some lovely anniversay pictures as well.

Happy Anniversary! You are one lucky lady!
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Postby snifferspommom on Sat Nov 26, 2011 1:53 pm

Man, Phyrie. You sure know how to make a girl cry!! I loved how you and Paul spent your anniversary and bless his heart for surprising your with new wedding rings, which are beautiful, by the way. Love the photos, too, especially the one after the two of you kissing!! May you have 34 more years of wedded bilss! ♥♥
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Postby Deerie me on Sat Nov 26, 2011 4:44 pm

Happy Anniversary Phyrie and Paul.

Phyrie, what a wonderful husband you have, your rings are beautiful.
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Postby Oliver & Henry's Mum on Sun Nov 27, 2011 12:44 am

Phyrie, your new rings are just beautiful! Paul did such a good job, even without your help! :wink: He is such a cutie. Your story is truly the stuff of which dreams are made. I know I had a tear reading it for the first time. :)

I particularly loved the photos of the three of you sitting together toasting one another. Oh, I noticed wee glimpses of Kiba in there, and the last photo is just the best that really shows the three of you. Both you and Paul look amazing, beyond that, beautiful! Your happiness is palpable as was previously mentioned. :D

RubyJeansMom wrote:Your new rings are BEAUTIFUL! Well done, Paul. :D
Although I was half expecting a sweet little Tri Cavalier girl. :wink: :mrgreen:



LOL!!!! That would have been lovely also. :P

My family and I are wishing you 34 more years of wedded bliss. You two really beat the odds, and have made a wonderful life for yourselves. Paul is a darling, and so are you....sympatico indeed!

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Postby lynners on Mon Nov 28, 2011 12:58 pm

Happy (belated) anniversary, Phyrie and Paul! What a wonderful, beautiful couple you two are. <3
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Postby pawsforthought on Mon Nov 28, 2011 5:58 pm

Happy belated Anniversary you guys! :mrgreen: Phyrie, your rings are stunning! Very well chosen indeed!

I also haven't seen a picture of Paul before! You make a gorgeous couple, you two :)
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Postby Margie-Rex's Mom on Mon Nov 28, 2011 8:22 pm

Phyrie, I posted on FB, but wanted to say again...you two are such amazing people. Those photos are what love looks like. I showed them to Kimmi (she's rubbish about getting online :roll: ) and she kept going "awwww..."

Happy Anniversary, Phyrie and Paul!! ♥♥♥♥♥♥
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Postby iheartmydog on Tue Nov 29, 2011 4:36 pm

Happy Anniversary!

Now obviously I'm a bit ignorant in this area :lol: But still, the pictures are great(understatement) and your rings are gorgeous!
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