Hi Fleur! What a beautiful name, and I'm sure you are a lovely flower.
I also have two boys, but one is nearly 16, and the other just turned 20. I also happen to have two Cavalier King Charles Spaniels, also boys, but we are miles apart as I'm in London, Ontario, Canada, and you are in Australia. We have quite a few members from Australia.
Mindy looks like a darling!
Try using "Photobucket" (or another free, photo web hosting site) for your photos. It is much easier to post them in the Forums using the link provided. I use that, as do many of our members. It also serves as an off site back up for some of your favourite photos.
When it comes to adding to my profile, I need my son's help to adjust the picture to the right size. RJM (RubyJeansMom) is very helpful as well when it comes to resizing. When you use Photobucket, don't select the largest size, but the one down from it as it cuts off the right hand of your photo to make room for the avatar.
There are instructions in the "Information Box" at the top of this Section that might be helpful, although the screen "shots" are outdated, the ease of use is the same. I am so technologically challenged and I've managed it, so I'm sure you can as well. We love pictures!
Welcome to the Daily Puppy from Oliver & Henry, and their Mum (Deborah), in London, Ontario.